cheater = loser.

11/19/2010 § Leave a comment

last night, someone shared a very interesting story. about sa LOVE. oh yes. well, may nagshare lang sa kanya and needed some advice. so kinwento niya sakin. 🙂

here’s the other person’s problem:

he cheated sa girlfriend niya. pinagsabay niya. pero he ended up alone kasi both siya iniwan. when he tried to reconcile with his ex-girlfriend, pinagpalit na siya. now, he’s asking bakit ganun. hindi raw ba pwedeng may mahal ka pero may mas mahal ka? na normal lang daw sa lalaki yung mag two time.

then this friend of mine came up with a very very good answer/advice. (ill try my best na ulitin exactly yung sinabi niya, pero i hope magets niyo yung point)

“hindi pwede yun. dahil kung mahal mo talaga, mahal mo talaga. hindi ka na maghahanap ng iba. kung totoo yung nararadaman mo para sa girlfriend mo, hindi mo na kakailanganin maghanap ng iba. yung pag two-time, choice yun. nasayo kung gusto mo silang lokohin pareho. pero never naging tama yun. AT HINDI NORMAL YUN SA MATINONG LALAKING NAGMAMAHAL. NORMAL NA TUMINGIN PERO KUNG MATINO KA, HINDI MO LOLOKOHIN YUNG GIRLFRIEND MO. hindi tama na gagawin mo yun sa taong mahal mo. kahit malayo pa siya sayo, kahit ano pang tukso yan, dedma yan dahil wala sila dapat binatbat sa  totoong mahal mo.”

well, it was sort of like that. natuwa naman ako sa kanya. tama yung sagot niya diba? 🙂  

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Being in a relationship is a commitment. Kung hindi mo kaya mag commit, might as well break up. Kung hindi mo kaya mag commit sa ISA, then wag ka na magboyfriend/girlfriend. hindi porket kaya mong gawin yun, gwapo ka na or maganda ka na. sabi nga sa facebook pageBeing babaero doesnt make you gwapo.. it makes you gago.

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